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BSN, Family Death & Tragedy, Christian Nurse

April 12, 2016


At 32 years old, the decision to become a nurse did not come easy. It has meant making many sacrifices in order to be fully focused on making my career change successful. I had to quit what was for me a lucrative job as an Operations Manager and move back into my parents’ home in order to be able to devote myself full time to taking the steps necessary to achieve a career in nursing.   One particularly significant moment that sparked my interest in nursing was when my uncle was in the intensive care unit at the Weill Cornell Medical Center in New York City.  He had suffered an aneurysm in his brain and during my initial visit I had anticipated the worst.  My uncle welcomed me with a big smile and I was astonished to see that he was at ease because of the team of nurses encouraging him and working around the clock to ensure his stability.  I sat by his side for several weeks watching the nurses engage and care for my uncle as well as many other patients in the unit.  It was these compassionate, strong nurses that truly inspired me.  My life then was comfortable.  I had a stable job and a great opportunity for career growth.  Yet something was always missing. Although I was happy and grateful, a part of me yearned for something more.  Attending to my uncle during his stay at the hospital made me realize I also wished to devote my life in serving the needs of others.  It incited something deep within me, a subconscious yearning to be a nurse.

It was through a gradual succession of experiences of caregiving that my zeal for nursing increased steadily.  Nursing to me is so much more than just a career choice.  In retrospect, I see with increasingly clarity how caregiving has always been a definitive part of my nature.  It was during those moments when I provided for others in need that I felt most alive.  As a child of immigrants in a foreign world, I had to grow up quickly and take on many responsibilities at an early age.  To make ends meet, my parents worked 14-hour shifts at a clothing factory, leaving my brother and I to take care of one another.  While my older brother provided me with a sense of security, I took on the nurturing and caregiving role. Whenever my brother got sick, I cared for him just as my mother would. When my mother was ill, I cooked and cleaned knowing it would help ease the load. 

When my father suffered an accident and could not walk for weeks, I tended to his needs and assisted my mother in nursing him back to health. Thus, early on I learned the inexplicable rewarding satisfaction that comes from taking care of others while putting my own needs aside. Although I did not know it at the time, these experiences set the cornerstone for who I would become for the rest of my life.

Nursing has deep roots in many facets of my life particularly my profound faith as a Christian. My Christian beliefs and career goals as a nurse fit hand in hand. The church that I attend is extensively involved in sponsoring and participating in medical mission trips to the developing world.  Accordingly, this stands at the center of my own personal and world vision.  The missions supported by my church have a great need for participation of qualified medical professionals to travel to these countries where many people lack even the most basic medical care.  I wish to give back beyond borders for people in these areas through the education and professional knowledge that I will gain from the experiences of becoming a nurse in the United States.  I believe that it is our natural duty in life to do the most we can in helping others within and beyond our familiar borders, making as much positive difference as we can in people’s lives. Thus, going on annual medical missions as a nurse will become the central triumph and celebration of my life, my greatest achievement.

My immediate goals upon graduating nursing school would be to work in the hospital for a few years to discover from the many experiences in which area I want to specialize for further study.  In particular, I look forward to working with the elderly, especially those with estranged relationships or little to no family left. When my grandmother suffered a stroke and was in the hospital, it broke my heart to see so many elderly sick and all alone. I want to care for them during their final days and do all that I can to keep them as comfortable and happy as possible.

I feel strongly that my background as a business professional has provided me with the opportunity to learn many valuable practices and principles that will enable me to become a highly competent student nurse, especially my organizational and interpersonal skills and ability to perform under stressful conditions.  Additionally, my managerial background and the wisdom that I have gained thus far as a career professional provide me with many resources that will be helpful to my career in nursing both academically and professionally.   I have come into contact with many types of people and have come to excel at teamwork and professional networking.  Through these experiences I have learned that patience, empathy, diligence and having a positive mindset despite the trials at hand is absolutely crucial in all that we do.

 I also believe that the many personal challenges that I have faced along the way have made me a strong person; someone who will be able to give much to the healthcare industry.  Right after my graduation from high school, my brother was murdered. It turned my life upside down and until this day, it has been the hardest thing that I have had to endure. Yet, I also realize that life's greatest lesson come through trials and tribulations. My experiences of loss and grief contributed to my temporary academic failure as a result of depression and severe anxiety.  Yet, I recovered and in everything that I do, I do my best with purpose, integrity, and sincerity. Keenly aware of how fragile life is, I treasure each moment; as a nurse, I want to make every day count.

I believe that nurses are critically important voices for patient advocacy. As a result of their intimate relationships with patients as well as the medical staff, nurses understand the core needs of the patients that must serve as the basis for positive policy changes that will enable us to improve our care.  When it comes to caregiving, I see language ias secondary and appreciate how, even with communication barriers, nurses can travel to many parts of the world and provide care for people in need.  I also hope to travel as a nurse as part of medical missions to the Developing World. Your distinguished nursing program at XXXX is my first choice for study towards a BSN nursing degree for a variety of reasons.  Particularly your explicit focus on diversity, small inter-personal pilot classes, onsite university hospital, affordable tuition, and campus location to name a few.  Therefore, I have been working very hard at fulfilling the requirements for entrance into your nursing program. I thank you for considering my application.

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